I´m not exactly sure, but since EA stopped their backend and FH started using a replacement, I think there are no more CD key checks in place, meaning the "your CD key is in use" message should be a thing of the past..
About the vehicles, I find the M3 Grant and Lee tanks with two turrets to be vehicle that can profit the most from multiple players manning it. On normal tanks I mostly prefer a seat on top over the hull MG seat when driving to unsafe territory, because having an all around view is more important than more firepower in a small area infront of the tank. Some planes have rear gunner seats, but thats just for defense in case of air attacks. The bombs are always dropped by the pilot. Only the scout plane gives the the passenger the ability to place artillery spots.