But you might be asking quite a bit from a stranger.
I like to think of being a squad leader as the pirate captain of rag tag bunch of buchaneers.
You don't lead your men by rank, but by your ability to give em good action.
They keep spawning on me because I present a forward spawn close to the action.
Some, may realize that my spawn is not just along the beaten track, but makes them more elite by flanking the enemy, etc. Once i figure out the type of squad I lead, I know what to do with them.
For some, I need to create a further spawn, because they will otherwise have me detected and overrun or naded.
For some, I can afford to run in with them knowing I'm surrounded a ring of steel and will likely die with my men only if the situation is hopeless, and can thus be a more aggressive leader.
More often though, I need to decide on a case by case basis, to fall back, to attack etc.