You know, you do miss out on a lot by commiting fornication like mad - there is something about a clean, un-stained marriage that no amount of wild, ahem shall I call it dating? can replicate. Staying true to one woman should be your every goal. Remember, when man and woman lie together, they become one flesh. I am not trying to irritate anyone, I am just trying to be helpful. When you fornicate in vast excess like some gentlemen on this board apparently do, you may already have destroyed the true joy of a relation for yourselves. All I can say is: Ask Jesus for forgiveness, believe that he has lived, died and risen for you and your sins shall be forgiven! In order to be saved, the LORD our GOD wants us to admit that we are wrong. This is the first step, which is followed by repentance, meaning you realise that sin is evil and you make a choice to depart from it. It may seem impossible to part with some sins, but with the Holy Spirit and GOD everything isls possible. All he wants is you to admit that you need Him in order to be saved. Then, when the Holy Spirit dwells inside of you, you will be able to understand what I am talking about. Without God, your lives are empty and meaningless, even though it does not always seem that way.
Remember: God loves sinners, but he hates sin! He loves and welcomes you all to accept His great gift of life, so that you shall not perish, but enjoy the real, eternal life.
