Change these:
See why society doesnt make any sence?
Identified: blaming other people.
Solution: start taking responsibilities and man up. If it means accepting your weakness, then move on.
Half the people say: "No need to change yourself - keep up figthing for your ideas!" (history had many people like that as well)
But some other half tells me than "If you dont fit other's behaviour - change it"
Question: who can i trust?
Identified: Passive aggressive acceptance of advise
Identified: Ego - delusions of grandeur
Solution: Try to help other people first, there are people who are in shittier situation. You'll know the feeling when you make other people happy.
Does that mean i need to think than following politics is really something impossible for me? and what about my hopes and plans than i made all this time until here than can go ahead and work, and would be in vain if i just resigned now? do i need to become a swagger or some shit like that, and start smoking/drinking? do i need to think than i will be rich and famous in the fufutre like most of the people do? do i need to stop bein nice to strangers and dont give them a single fuck wen they try to speak with me? (and the list goes on...)
Identified: being quickly judgmental
Identified: narrow point of view
Identified: frustration
Identified: inflated ego
Solution: do not think too high about yourself. Are you nice to strangers? Are you expecting a specific reward for that? Well if you think being nice to other people will grant you unlimited acceptance of others, well I think you'll need to stop being nice on that grounds. Moreover, you judge non-politician aspiring people to be swaggers and not nice. Instead of making good career in politics, you'll make a lot of enemies.
Pro tip: In politics, you'll need to watch what you say. With your background and social standing, you are too exposed to scandal if you make gaffes. You're not rich famous guy like Silvio Berlusconi, you can't escape gaffes. You're still far too young to materialize your ideas, keep LEARNING, keep working on it.
I will keep up with politics indeed.. but i think i also need to learn than i cant fit everyone's point of view: i have people who actually agreed with me in such political topics (not on this forum of course) so i guess i just need to stay close to my allies and dont give a single fuck about the ones who seem to be hostile to me, instead of trying to be friendly..
Another political pro-tip:
People are tired about politicians being divisive and cartoonishly stereotypical towards their platform. How about try something more original than "us" and "them" attitude? Moreover, you are planning to lead a whole nation of many different people, which many are far smarter than you, can you accept that?
Also, i would like to know wich "problematic personality traits" do i need to get rid of - what stuff do i really need to stop doing winout screwing with my polititian career.. do people hate me because they think i can actually reach my objective, and they cant? are they jealous? are they anarchists? do they think im a nazi? do they think im trolling? i mean: what's the problem here?
Identified: inflated ego
Identified: being quickly judgmental
Solution: Think more. Don't make a hasty conclusion, especially when influenced by bad mood due to social rejections. You'll regret it much later, when you are wiser.
So Henrique, in total, you are positively so full of yourself that you don't want to talk other people who you think are spending times on "shallow" things like getting drunk or jerking off.
The truth is, like many of us, it is the insecurities inside all of us, the fear of being judged (constantly asking, what are they thinking about me?). So instead of preemptively counter-thinking every precognition judgment by inflating our own ego, why not you try something positive like - throw all the weight out. I managed to get out of it by finding people who shared my passion. And from them I learn something like being positive towards other people or "society," if you like it. They are the society of airplane lovers.
But the weakness of "not able to get girlfriend" is still rampant there, with the majority being socially awkward geeks and nerds with more or less reinforced ego (we all try to appease each other by reconfirming and normalizing our awkwardness, so staying there won't help). So, in college/university, I learn about approach girls by having completely new surroundings and new kinds of classmates, whole new environment, whole new society. So, why not move out from the neighbourhood? Travel? Go to college?
Anyway, PROFIT means you gain something from your effort, because you do something according to the way it meant to be.
