Just saw how quickly team stacking can clear out a server...Sargoresci and Capt.Mike are some of the worst offenders for this, again. The team stacking started with top players migrating to the British on Sfaika, with Sandre on Brits staying silent. It wasn't subtle at all. Then people started leaving in droves.
Sorry, IMHO the maps are fine...the kits are fine...the mechanics are fine...if you want to keep the mod alive, look at your veteran stat whores. Server-killers.
There are lots of players in this game who I consider better than me, some of them mentioned above. Do you think that I always start complaining when I see them bunched up in the enemy team? Hell no. I will try to beat them.
I am sorry to say this, but to call three better guys in one team teamstacking is just a bit lazy. Team up and try to be more clever. You can beat Sargcoresi, Mike or Sandre, but it requires a bit of an effort ofcourse as they won't make it easy for you.
We all started as newbies and it was not any different when I started playing FH2 5 years ago. Today the difference is that new players want to have everything served on a silver plate. Most vets I know try to help new players where they can, but it has limits. There never has been a rule on any server in FH2 that prevented people from joining a team with their friends except auto team balance.
So this is just for your information. Don't forget that you are playing a FPS after all. There will always be people who are better or worse than you.