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Offline SiCaRiO

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help! friend feeling bad
« on: 24-12-2010, 04:12:42 »
in short, i have this girl friend, who i just talk in the phone, and she is feeling sad, she miss her friends and family back at our homeland, and....well that, she feels nostalgia .

now, I just suck at sentimental stuff, cant never expres my self rigth. but i really cant stand seen her like that and i want to help , just dont know how. i want to cheer her up before cristhmass, any advice on what to do? what to say?
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #1 on: 24-12-2010, 04:12:40 »
First step: Don't refer to her as a his.
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #2 on: 24-12-2010, 05:12:08 »
yea, 5 am here xD
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #3 on: 24-12-2010, 05:12:17 »
oh boy i am experienced with this sort of problem.  so is she your girlfriend or a friend who is a girl?
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #4 on: 24-12-2010, 05:12:03 »
she is just a friend, we used to date but that was 1 year ago
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #5 on: 24-12-2010, 05:12:41 »
I can't help too much with nostalgia, but why don't you two have a small party with some close friends?
If anything, she'll probably get over her nostalgia after some sleep.
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #6 on: 24-12-2010, 07:12:21 »
Go to a nice restaurant buy her diner. That would cheer her up.  8)
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #7 on: 24-12-2010, 07:12:37 »
   Hmmm just try and be subtle with these things....But maybe remind her of what a shit hole your homeland is.  Maybe let little things about what a bunch of backstabbing assholes some of her old friends are.  Maybe mom was a bit of a cunt/whore and dad had nasty drinking problem.  Creepy uncle maybe?  Find any and all negative things about her past and bring them up.  This will cheer her up immensely about her current situation.  Good luck!
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #8 on: 24-12-2010, 08:12:11 »
I dont know but I feel this kind of questions should go to yahoo answers instead...
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #9 on: 24-12-2010, 09:12:51 »
Quote from: Yustax on 24-12-2010, 08:12:11
I dont know but I feel this kind of questions should go to yahoo answers instead...

What I thought too.
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #10 on: 24-12-2010, 09:12:55 »
What usually does the trick with my girl-friends is to bang their brains out ! Solves all the worrying surprisingly quickly  8)
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #11 on: 24-12-2010, 09:12:50 »
Quote from: Dnarag1M on 24-12-2010, 09:12:55
What usually does the trick with my girl-friends is to bang their brains out ! Solves all the worrying surprisingly quickly  8)

This is better then my idea!  But I would add ending the party with their face.  And then explaining to them that back home they may have gotten punched in the face before the grand final.  This will help them understand how fucking awesome they have it.
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #12 on: 24-12-2010, 15:12:40 »
yea...i didnt understand the last ones xD.

dinner could work .... meh, i would just call her and give her a present  :P
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #13 on: 24-12-2010, 16:12:27 »
dont be shy sicario, sex is the asnwer to all lifes problems
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Re: help! friend feeling bad
« Reply #14 on: 24-12-2010, 16:12:18 »
Quote from: Sn00x on 24-12-2010, 16:12:27
dont be shy sicario, sex is the asnwer to all lifes problems
there we go

Meet with her, buy her diner, tell her you will listen to everything she has to say

The day after you will thank us  ;)
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