flyboy_fx, you can join our server. We have a mixture of few US-players, some Russians, many Germans and even some French players. Be advised, it's a friendly server so killing innocent people is not that well regaraded. In fact, they made a whitelist in order to reduce the killings. If such things do not bore you, you are welcome to join.
37.59.28.24:3302
@ Jimi. Yes, you can team up with other players. On normal servers though it is hard to find trustworthy players on your own. It is always good to know someone personally.
Yes, you can build shelters, depots, garages and strongholds if you have the materials and the blueprints (Stronghold ones are at one well guarded place only)