Hey the thread starter sounds like me!!
I get both sides. And do understand the tone of the devs - Firstly its rare to get that many devs reply in such quick succession - Few actually grace faulty criticisms with their presence. Not that yours is completely off-base, but their tone is on account of:
a) They've gone through a shitload to make a good mod - And its a damn good mod with better detail to stuff than ANY mod I've seen (heck its a beta for a complete game by itself). AND, its annoying to have someone come up and tell them they are missing their mark when this is not all too true
b) Some facts were a bit off. Realism for instance, and how you went about dissecting WHY FH2 is no more realistic than FH1...
c) PR... DAmmit, you never mention PR. Its like saying, "hmm that's a nice Volvo, but why didn't you get a Benz?" - Its annoying, cuz "I didn't frigging want a Benz!"... PR is NOT FH2, granted some things can be mentioned from PR as suggestions, but not for FH to be more like PR - cuz it frigging isn't
Also, I must say, I appreciate the reason for the concern more than the concern itself. The wepaon loadout and balancing is perfect - Moreso realistic than FH1 - you don't use health bars, and this done with an arcade engine like BF2. Deployable weapons more realistic, being able to deploy them anywhere
The neccesary animation for everything - Ever noted the hand change when reloading a Bren gun
So, no FH2 is not as arcade as FH1, and DEFINITELY not close to BF2... Heck, the level of detail in graphics for FH2 is astonishing compared to its predecessor, and to any mod, including PR
Like the devs said, FH and FH2 is designed to balance gameplay and realism, not make realism completely - Ony the reviews and game sites accidently classify FH that way
You have not gotten an answer, you may think - MOre a defense, right? Well, the reason is, cuz like the devs said, use the search (And I know its harder done than said, since the answer is all over the site and Filefront tinclusive, but that's why each respondent, including myself has been that complete in their response)
And yes, the aircrafts ARE the biggest dissapointments courtesy of the engine. I know, and don't quote me. but I'm sure the devs are doing everything to make tanks and planes more realistic and each version of FH would shape up more and more like what its supposed to be. You should have seen FH0.6 compared to FH0.7 and the difference in how planes handled between versions...
But it takes time - That's the difference between fans of games and fans of games who are also mod fans: The latter are aware that the mod is, and always will be a work in progress. It's seeing it mature that makes it fun